For Me Reality Is...

Problem is we never accept the actual happenings. Hope for the best is not at all a bad idea
but if your wish extends the limit its really disgusting and offensive. Because It hurts a lot to the other. Which in my instinct is counted to be the the worst crime in the field.

I have seen people talking fun,making fun. But they hardly listen if the other person is saying something worthy. For example two people talking to each other one is saying and the other is listening.If the second person wants to say the first one never listens. Because his world is becoming enough for him. I know this thing is a general example but you do not know if you are the first person then you are loosing a great many things at that moment. I know it's casual..
It is to be taken care of(Your view may be different I cant help it any moment).

Every body wants to win . And its really good. And if You win You are happy.Can You be so much if in an other field one of your friends win ? Its really difficult. But Can you!! Can You live for another person !Try it once. It is beautiful(the word has special meaning here). I can't explain the pleasure you have at that moment.

Believe me if you are helping another without any means You will feel the greatest Joy in the world,and nothing less.It may be a joke for you but its reality and this is my experience I am
sharing. And if you are not Helping You have no right to hurt others. For your deeds if any other is running in darkness of woes and anxieties , its you who should be hurt 1st. Then only you can feel the person's actual agony.

In the end I want to say Keep at least 5 minutes a day to think for the others.Keep track of the moments what You have done with others on that perticular day. Try not to do any harm on the
next day if you have.

This is not spirituality ...This Is Reality.