Some people like to be noticed..
Some people need to be noticed..
Some people try to be noticed..
Even there exist some people who prefer to help the above categories to get noticed.. Confused!!No, Ok We will go one by one.
An orthodox view of the world: face is the index of mind.But I say, It is no more now. There may be two reasons for the above.On one side ability,competence,excellence may not be blossomed in the right way, in the right time or in the right environment. On the other, people are becoming either dumb,casual, busy or careless enough to read others mentality and motive. The overwhelming negative impression about a person before actual meet or introduction to him/her is also obstructing the way. In general one's profit is regarded as others loss.
I found exception over here. In this case both the parties are in a huge loss. I will give two examples here
One: The interviewer has an impression when an candidate gets in. Most of the qualification are done before the start of the interview.(Only excuse for the interviewer is that he has least of time to attend every aspect of a student).You just can't deny it. We technically call it body-language. Done!!
Candidate having a bulk of intelligence is never measured due to only one mistake during his entry to his room. Don't you think this is loss to both the sides.
Two: Two people are merely attached with each other,but never have a exchange of sentiments. If one somewhat fails to be noticed in some way the thread is totally gone. Other has hardly anytime to look into the matter.undone!!
In this case we can't say loss to both every time. it can go the other way.
Well after reading the above you must have mindset to showcase and advertise yourself.fine.. But do you love to be observed performing some blunders intentionally??????
You want example!! Ok, to be frank enough raising middle finger,unnatural skin show, use of harassing words are always noticed.
I expect the answer to be 'NO'. But friends, trends and statistics reveal that advertising good qualities are least appreciated now-a-days. Showing obscene gestures and using those 'Dooshra' words are taking all the attractions. I will not blame the boys totally, meanwhile I will not deny to blame the other side for supporting these activities.
Two phrases,Back-Street-Boys and Back-Screen-Boys seem same, buts aspects differ a lot. The importance of the inner qualities are least reflected. People love to watch pyramids, but hesitate to count the no of drops of blood inside it. It only kills time. It is no untruth. But don't you think that we have some kind of responsibility to mirror these things for which we get much of our pleasure.What I think,It never lessens our dignity rather enhances.
And about the middle layer, they love to be noticed. But fortune never favors every bud to be blossomed. They hardly get noticed. Reason: Unable to structure their talent,unable to add red drops on the white screen, unable to criticize the prevailing unaccepted words.There is not a satisfying solution to these. Rather assurance: Stick to yourself, explore yourself and off course wait for the right moment to come. Because every morning is not a sunny one, Monsoon comes every year for sure.
The solutions to the three categories in my opinion. Judgment of a person by another individual. I will strictly and compulsorily advise all(even if My age never suggests me to advise..) to help the deserving ones to express and to explore themselves. You may be thinking it lessens your own standards, actually it never does that. It enhances your originality in your personality. You extract a huge amount of pleasure out of it. So you are in a gain.
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3 comments:
a valid point made. though u may need to look into d grammatical side a bit, u make a rather unnerving but true observation abt d ways ppl try 2 b d center of attention. though it is difficult in 2day's wrld 2 not b prejudiced..we actaully shud judge a person on his character rather dan d way he speaks..
'Every man for himself ' is the policy most people follow these days and its only obvious ,though not necessarily correct, that people have this desire to push themselves to the center of attraction.And being too busy in this task of theirs' they seldom have time and interest to actually judge a person's character .
It's a rough world out there. Every one is all ready to grab a place. So, it comes as no surprise that no one actually has time to judge others. Everyone's got to show what they've got... there are loads of people out there when it comes to comparing talent. So it is really not wrong on whether you actually judge a person on the basis of his ability to "show" that he has got something. A person who;s got it and does nothing about loses at the very first instant.
There's nothing ethical or unethical about doing that and getting noticed. It is just survival of the fittest. Why would someone give food to someone else when he himself is starving?
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