Our daily life starts when we listen to the undesirable but expected alarm ring in the morning. Is n't it! Before going to the work place we invariably take a look at the mirror the confirm the readiness of the appearance to suit with the atmosphere. Well, the intension is not to go through the daily activities we perform. Something different I want to focus on.
The mirror ,unlike a judge, gives the reflection of the picture that you keep in your mind. We want the physical forms,appearance and beauty to be perfect when we judge ourselves in the mirror. A confidence grows in every brain after the mirror scan. We get very less time in a day to deal with the internal issues which really matter in our life. We always want to be like an entity what the rest of the world wants us to be. That is one reason why we are comfortable with the life that we are living right now. We always hesitate to go in front of a mirror which really reflects our true natures like jealousy, desire, pride, love, anger, perceptions and all. To be frank enough one of the reason behind it is the reluctance of the human beings to go out of the comfort zone. The other , rather the important reason is the ego of the person.
One point i want to make clear that when ever we look at another person we go for external appearance.It is very much true. But the moment we start talking with him/her we always look into the person's mind, how he thinks, how friendly the person is, how much knowledge he has, how much he cares for you and after all how much respect he has for you in his eyes. We as an observer expects at least these things from the person who we watch or talk to. The surprising story is that still we care a lot about our external appearance. If some of these times would be dedicated to redefine our internal senses life becomes easier on the next day.
To summarize it all I want to give a simple logical instance. Remember the day you first observe your girl friend/Boy friend. And compare it with the day when you start talking with her/him. And again compare it with today when you are much friendly with her/Him. The difference (may) lie on one thing. The closeness (may) starts growing when you start looking at the true nature of the person like dedication, care, love and all...
1 comment:
completely agree .......
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