Friday, October 22, 2010

Which is Difficult? To Remember or To Forget

         Remember our childhood. We were given home work to do out and to remember. Yes I remember those days when it was very difficult to remember a simple word or sentence. And day after day we face situations to remember one or two pages. Now I can't deny in our engineering time we used to remember one book in one day only. Is it called a usual evolution process or it's a matter of compulsion that insists a person to do so. Yes I have gained memory power to remember things, a lot of things in small time. No matter everyone does the same thing.

        Now I think of something different than the others. Can I forget things as the same manner that I used to do in my childhood? Its a quite unusual question to put. Why does a person try to forget when there are a lot of money being wasted to remember certain things. The logic is fair enough to put here.

        But In my personal experience it's becoming even impossible to forget some moments of my life which I need, not to remember. The more I try to forget the more it chases behind me. What I think , this is one of the reasons why people are so much worried now a days. Every individual needs some of his  challenging and difficult moments to remember. At the same time he/she needs some happy, important rather ignorable moments to forget. Here comes the confusion between the quality and quantity of interest and dedication of that individual for spending that time and, the degree of his attempt to remember or forget those moments. The  
ambiguity of the thoughts creates more area in our memory. That might be the reason why people can't forget some things even if they want. These moments keep hurting us wherever we go what ever we think. It becomes the part of each thought of our life. The underground emotions which used to be dormant at one point  of time becomes a nondetachable part of our thoughts. I do not know whether it is a problem to somebody.. But by my personal experience felt it guides our life towards inevitable fate and nothing...

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