What My Experience Says...

I was searching for the reason and the solution to each and every problem for a longtime. Iwas heart-broken not to find it. I analysed every important and casual moments I faced during the journey and was gaining a lot of experience during that time. Extreme anxiety, bulk of burden, some entertainment ,some feelings were part of it. I apologize for my inquisitive approach towards my friends. I also don't blame anybody else rather am giving credits to all who I test during that time.

I was trying to relate all my experience and was eager to keep all of them in a single bottle. But it was one of the difficult tasks I had ever. But I tried...

In general what I studied that every indivisual is running after himself and always unpleasant and disheartened finding his/her failure everytime in every door. Carring this mindset he/she has very less time to stare for anyone who has hardly any value in his/her life. Therefore he/she always wonders in a cave of "I ,Me ,Myself" . Due to human nature he/she convince himself/herself that he/she is the happiest with himself. Can you feel this moment of a person... But my instinct says aspects and motive of each life are all relative. Due to persuit of prosperity we are running and running till we reach our so called relative destination. Ok we reached at last. And we are taking rest for a while. In that leisure can you look back and count how many/much you have lost during that chase for destiny. And a mild chance of bringing back those time,those resources,those beauties. Is n't it? Are n't these more important for us right now? This is the reason why I said it was all relative. So we are running after the relative destiny which is actually static. If you understand what I mean it's all over.

The day we stop this wild goose chase I think that day we will be possessing something which we call relaxed-mind and peace. and nothing less. I want to remind peace and happiness are not same. Distinguish the words you will find something .

I carried off my feet to make my friends what I experienced. I don't know how much I succeed. But I will think for you forever...

Ignorance Gives Sadness...

Sometimes we search for someone/something but we hardly find it.This depends on our ultimate dedication towards the labour and the thing itself. But tragedy comes when we find the thing, but we still don't stop searching for another. Here comes the exposure of human behaviour (which the rest animal group don't have and they lead in peace). This second search gives us randomness in our life. Human-being wonders for the same again and again and never utilise what he has possessed. God is gifting you your love (anything else), still you don't believe Him or yourself. Is not this a tragedy of life ?

Sometimes we ignore the things which happened to us. This may be the reason why we never stop searching in our life.I think this may be the reason why people waste their valuable time saying that they are utilising it rather they spoil it which would have used in a better fruitful way.

What greatmen do is that they search less but find more.This is the reason they capture the pleasure and peace,And not we. And what we do- Even if we get, we chase for the baseless mountain-beauty and go on searching...

So never search for someone/something a lot. It's always with you,it's your eagerness and love which will find it out automatically. Seach for yourself,which is the root, and never go after everything else you pass by.

And I tried to explain what I felt...Rest is yours.

Magic Of High Thinking

In our busy,we are constantly faced with daily frustrations(Like our Institute,I don't blame it). We struggle through life looking for the answers which will lead us to happiness and devine peace and ofcourse success. One truth we often ignore is that the answers can be learned from our friends and small children. Children have many beautiful qualities and they know how to imagine(Remember your quality in your childhood).And some moments convince us that there is nothing in the world ,but only friends. But Still we are hard rocks to take it casual as usual.

Let's don't be it.

We are searching for the thing which we possess,So we never find it.

We all can dream big dreams and think big thoughts. We just have to use our imagination and self-belief which we all possess. It is sad to think about how we always forget to think big about ourselves and our lives. Are you making your dreams a reality! It is hard I guess. But gives pleasure.

We can blame it on our situations, we can blame other people, but the truth is that we are the only one,and none else, who can stand in the way of our dreams and destinations. It is also never too late to think big.Still I feel we have nothing to lose and everything to gain by thinking big about ourselves. So extend your imagination to such a high that it is higher than the believed limitations.

We have a lot to achieve in life. With this in mind, we need to let go of past fears and negative resources and collect past experience.Can you imagine yourself as someone who is making a contribution to life(it may be your or another's life)? How big can you think?It is nothing but the quality of feeling in your core.we should have a purpose that we do make a contribution. Contribution never reduces your wealth,it enhances the spirit in you,Is not it.

If you see yourself as an important factor,remember half of the job is finished.So look even bigger. If we are not fulfilled by our life then we must stretch our belief as I said before. Once this stream started flowing, we will get all kinds of fresh, creative ideas about ourselves and our lives. Our self esteem and inner beauty will begin to shine like a diamond.

Let's start thinking from today and

Let our dreams come true soon...

For Me Reality Is...

Problem is we never accept the actual happenings. Hope for the best is not at all a bad idea
but if your wish extends the limit its really disgusting and offensive. Because It hurts a lot to the other. Which in my instinct is counted to be the the worst crime in the field.

I have seen people talking fun,making fun. But they hardly listen if the other person is saying something worthy. For example two people talking to each other one is saying and the other is listening.If the second person wants to say the first one never listens. Because his world is becoming enough for him. I know this thing is a general example but you do not know if you are the first person then you are loosing a great many things at that moment. I know it's casual..
It is to be taken care of(Your view may be different I cant help it any moment).

Every body wants to win . And its really good. And if You win You are happy.Can You be so much if in an other field one of your friends win ? Its really difficult. But Can you!! Can You live for another person !Try it once. It is beautiful(the word has special meaning here). I can't explain the pleasure you have at that moment.

Believe me if you are helping another without any means You will feel the greatest Joy in the world,and nothing less.It may be a joke for you but its reality and this is my experience I am
sharing. And if you are not Helping You have no right to hurt others. For your deeds if any other is running in darkness of woes and anxieties , its you who should be hurt 1st. Then only you can feel the person's actual agony.

In the end I want to say Keep at least 5 minutes a day to think for the others.Keep track of the moments what You have done with others on that perticular day. Try not to do any harm on the
next day if you have.

This is not spirituality ...This Is Reality.