What is the reality after a party or get together!! Here it is....

      Lots of things happens in every moment of life, and those may be either quite worthy or just worthless. But A human being always expects that the moment that is to come should give him/her a lot of joy at least for that moment.for example we plan trips or journey with our friends to share time and joy with friends and all if it will be a ememorandom to make evrybody together forever. And next step of our motive is that the journey or the activities on that day will be remembered by everybody. And the utmost expectation is We will remember the infamous rather unforgettable time as  a precious chapter of everyone's life. We see photos, we poke activities on videos, we make fun of various unique and stupid activities.

And We walk out some days.. Here is what comes the reality....

    Hardly anybody opens the folder of the pics which had made some of our moments really worthy.  Memories become deam and diminished. No offence its all depends on th love and affection and attachment among the friends. the idea is everybody wants peace at every moment he lives and he tries to perform it as his best. But sometimes some confusion and some complexities obstructs him from this special occasions that come on every moment of life only on his own permission and choice. So I will say your peace becomes your own choice depending on your ability to enjoy it cleanly with the fullest. But you might be confused what is the point of explaining this idea with the idea of journey or trip. What I want to explain is, May be it( the moment of joy that comes from the trip/get together) hardly matters how its going to affect your rest of days of your life as a whole ,but this Now which you live brings a lot of "nows" thats gonna come in the future for sure.

    You may or may not open the folder that contains these unforgettable pics or you may/may not maintain a private diary But at least one day we all remember this moment which we once enjoyed. And on that day We create a great deal of pleasure, but of course  not all of the friends would be lucky enough to be  there to get a share of that pleasure.Anyways again it is of personal interest to make these things really happen. And I personally choose it to happen for me and with my friends :). What ever it may be  I always suggest live the present with so much of joy and ecstacy that future bows down its head before you. Just a reality, Your present makes your future on every aspect of life. So do not ever think to waste the present only for future that is often uncertain and unreal.

Some Personal Lessons I Have In my Small career...

     In the past 10 months of my  small corporate career I have gone through many team projects and many team outings and met many team leaders. To be frank and truthful enough I have learnt a very little technical knowledge but more knowledge on handling different adverse situations. When I came out of my B tech era, I heartly expected some big hardcore coding in a company like Amdocs. And in the very 1st month of the career I feel it would happen for me. But that never happened and may be it wont in the near future also. Some friends say never go deep in to your expectation which gives you utter disappointment and agony. yes its true.

     I have never said expectation from your daily work is wrong, but we spent so much our time thinking for better job life that we hardly find time to enjoy the current one that we own on that moment. So I would say 1st lesson for every one is to concentrate on the current job you are having and try to enjoy that one instead of wasting much of the hours behind hope-expectation-complain.

  Some people love to relax and some people love to work during the same working hours. Ultimately it depends on two important aspects of the approach you have for the job. One is the strictness of the goal that your manager sets and second one is the smartness of your work to complete a task before time and enjoy the rest of the time with your own flavor. So ultimately it becomes only you who can control your work hours either bowing down to what your manager says or implementing the second aspect which is quite helpful and invariable for the rest of  the life.

  One important lesson I want to share here which I came to understand now only even if I heard it many times by my colleagues and seniors. My mentor's first sentence was "Always try to identify what is the business logic behind what you code" . Now I start to know what does it mean. Its not always important to code like a freak, but it's important  how to code as per the requirements even if it might end up with a low performance and high profit. Because it is business and it is not a drawing board of a child to scratch anything.

  Most importantly  we know everybody is always inclined towards his comfort-zone, his own friend surrounding. But believe me when you come out of this zone and try something more you may feel awkward to situations but definitely you learn something different. For example  But still I would say keep on sticking to your zone of emotional compatibility for better life. I do not find much difference between personal and professional life when I take my close friends into consideration. So I am pretty satisfied and hopeful when the current colleagues and culture of the work is concerned. please don't mind If I said anything wrong, I just say the way I think....