Tuesday, September 20, 2011

Why do we have a break in nested loops!

               Interesting fact is that this post is not at all technical as per the heading we have. The truth I found is more or less related to the life of a normal human being. In the society we catch a very few number of people who get an undesired and unanticipated success and they keep on doing it again and again. And we meet few more people who always face speed breakers in each path of life they walk on.. which not only discourages our journey to success but keeps on disheartening us a lot even after a long run and  even after non-estimated loss and even after losing those precious time to make those painful efforts real.

             Some gentle men ideally say human being learns from his so called continuous BREAKS and takes those experiences to generate better and qualitative efforts. Its really very light and ideal to read these words which says failure-experience-efforts-maybe-success. But fair enough the human life is not that much long to keep on experiencing. The youth is not that much receptive to experience the broken heart. The dependents are not going to stay with you to watch you keep on experiencing failures. The idea behind this is only the particular person knows how much he pays and repays in terms of time, efforts, care, dare, stare,share for everything. Nobody understands but only few people have some words of reassurance to keep your wounds afresh till you try to forget it. it's like a match is abandoned due to rain when you are at 199* run. Neither you can do anything nor you can take any experience. And yes, it does defined as a failure for which you cry on your bed and nobody listens.

                But the answer to the question that how many times and how much time a normal human being keep on sustaining this kind of unwanted strain is always remaining either un-answered or fuzzy.

Sunday, September 4, 2011

Undefined Relationships matter..

      Everybody knows human-being always seeks for a society, not to prove himself a social animal but it's a necessity it can't deny to. He creates numerous relationships inside the same sphere. Someday everybody knows it all that everybody is connected to each other in someway either by co-incidence or through partial unprepared incidence or an occasional planned incidence. Obviously your parents, blood relatives are not gonna fall in this huge set.

     Personally I experienced various close, important, touching relationships which are quite difficult to explain and even to forget. You cant explain how an unknown person in a Mumbai local guides you the whole Mumbai in a moment. Wherever you go..you always seek a trusted guide - Auto driver, without pay without thank you!
Remember the vocal-chat with Panipuri wala... about college about prof about girls about Games about night canteen about all which he has least idea in. Still he listens, smiles and so as we do. How do you explain when you spend your whole cold-night preparing a person for an interview and next day you miss the class. And you hardly talked to that person before or even after. In a long train journey you become a trivial part of a discussion on a random Insurance domain and you keep on trying to relate to it with your ever different Software-Code-Design-Domain. Still you make friends out there! How?

     I cry out when I think about my pet whom I love so much.. and can't call it .. can't chat with... can't even see for years :( .  Nice to explain about a dream that you carry for a girl to marry and you listen a interesting news.. she is gonna marry but its not you :P Also you think about a girl you think about day and night.. But Reverse is not true which I would call a prison of dreams.

    Anyways I find such fuzzy rather very efficient, neat, priceless relationship really important to me at any instance of my life. These undefined relationships are so unique, so close to heart, so instant, unestimated, frequent, and someof them so illogical and unexpected. I hope every single person should think about this once to value this valuable but volatile relationships...