Saturday, November 27, 2010

Some Serious Things I Feel...

     Every great man says in  the very huge world you come alone and also go back alone. You get a very limited resource to work for yourself as well as others. The more you work for others the more renowned and special you will be in the society. Very much true it is. But you can never be motivated to work for the other so easily, as you are after all human being. Motivation for only comes when you are a satisfied entity in your personal life.

      But why is this serious discussion! I try to explain how trust comes so much of role in satisfying a person. Everyone has their own secrets , their own feelings and  own ways of understanding things. Every body has their different but still unique way of perceiving non-verbal behaviour of the person they see or stare. At the same time   he/she always searches for the person who has maximum similarity with himself/herself. But that does not always mean he becomes your friend. But he has the so called features to be eligible to be your friend whom you can share things. Again as everybody has always a internal desire to share some moments, some secrets, some serious personal happenings with some other else. The reason is again self satisfaction or intension of reducing the burden from the busiest part of life, work hours.

          Here comes the matter of trust into picture. Trust is an entity which is not built just because spending time together for a  long time but it comes from perfect comprehension of a non verbal communication, on daily basis. In these kind of relationships the strength of bond between the two is built upon only trust where you become ready to hold the hand of a person you trust and love, rather than spending time in the expecting him/her to hold yours. I mean, trust takes a person from a 'I' to 'We' thing. What I mean is when you start to deliver something from you two, there is no hesitance to say a 'We will'.

          Anyways, some people hesitate to make relationships like this because they are afraid to loose someone they trust or love in different ways. The ways are simply called either betrayal or break-ups.I wish you all a trust-worthy life...

No comments: