Unavoidable Emotions :(

            It was a busy Monday afternoon. I was blessed with a small good news . After a very few moments I shared it to one my very close friends. And off course he becomes happy.. but after sometime he suddenly said "Don't unconditionally fall in love, do not get attached". I was totally shocked at this statement by a person who never had such type of obsession with unusual and undefined relationships. At that point of time my self formulated persuasion and words of assurance was quite obvious and intended to make him feel good. As I knew I could convince neither him nor myself. As a firm thinker i started thinking on this very unavoidable situations that come to our life even if we do not always want to face. 

       From my deep thinking i found the unconditional love usually happens with the parent-children relationship in a duplex manner.Obviously question can not be raised on the heavenly love our parents have towards us. There is no expectation.. there is no desire.. it is so peaceful. Secondly another instance of this behavior comes when you actually respect a person right from the core of your heart and he/she does not know about it. It is purely on way unconditional love. In this case there is expectation, there is spontaneous followups. But there is not at all any emissive intention. And there comes the rest where there is always conditional love which involves expectations. if these expectations are independent of three criteria like Acceptance, Understanding and Appreciation, we call it worship which is nothing but an example of "the Story of Mira bai". And usually the instance is not frequent but it is so beautiful and holy like the scene of the horizon of the sun-shining. The idea is not to judge the word "Love" but to speculate it on the basis of some real-unavoidable-constraints. Second thought is the attachment towards an undefined relationship. Every human being at some stage of life solely understands the meaning of "attachment" and vows to control it at some point of time. But As I see,for a normal human being it is not at all an easier task to block the emotion inside, but my personal perception is to let it flow naturally until you get something best or something worst.